help

Two words - be supportive. Even if you don't get it. Making the effort goes a long ways.

Welcome Bear22
Glad to see you here to work as a team with Tisha.
1st off don't feel like your doing anything wrong when you feel frustrated. You only have to arm and you work outside the house if I am not mistaken. Your list of todo's is longer than a a couple where both are capable and can share equal loads.
Your not a horrible person. You are a stressed person.
Another thing my partner had to realize was that he can't always do it in a day. Something may be left until tomorrow or not get done for weeks. Just take it one day, one hour, or one minute at a time if you have to.
There are no rules. There is no wrong way. It is your way. The way it works for both of you together as a team.
She is lucky to have you. And you are lucky to have her.
Don't hesitate to ask questions or get ideas or share a good idea or just vent. Folks are always around. :-) your friend Anne

Thank you Anne that is helpful. and I definitely have to agree with your classification as a stressed person because working full time makes it tricky. I look forward to having this community to help as we go along :)
Thanks
Bobbie

baby thank u and i am sorry hun that i feel like ya u are the best persone i would waht to have wit me to help me wit this and there are some amazing people on here and they will help both of us baby i love u hun

love ur always and forever tisha